Be efficient - Network everywhere
Don’t limit
your networking to situations where you believe you “should” network but try to
keep the mindset of networking active at all times to make sure you don’t miss
out on very good connections.
Over some
time you will see your network grow significantly if you have an open mind,
this is because you naturally spend more time in general situations compared with
specific networking situations.
Every Day Professional Networking
People often ask
how to behave at networking events, how to get the most out of them and where
to find these good networking events and in particular the networking events
that fit their professional and social interests?
The question not often asked is how anybody
can work on his or her professional network in daily life?
When you
consider these two questions you should look at where you meet new people, not
where you meet new people who are there foremost to network. If you consider
all the places you meet new people you will also understand which forums are
the best for networking.
As with all
activities the basic “no risk, no reward” rule applies. If you are not willing
to take action and open up conversations with new people you will never be able
to get to know them.
Where Did You Meet The People You Know?
When people are asked where they do
professional networking most mention various events with the specific purpose
of networking but is that the whole truth?
When the question is changed to where people
met most of their friends, acquaintances and business associates the answer
become rather different and most people then mention common, every day places
such as:
o School
o Work
o University
o Friends of friends
o Conferences
o Travels
The different answers to these questions
make it possible to conclude that even though professional networking events
are very important to purposefully grow ones network it is equally important to
realize and seize the opportunities to make friends and acquaintances in every
day life – and to stay in touch with those people.
Being aware of these two sources, every day
life and networking events, where ones professional and social networks are
created, will have a big impact on how you perceive situations in your life.
Every day networking
Extend your conversations from a simple
hello or a nod to some small talk. Small talk might seem shallow but that’s how
most relationships start.
Make a sustained and focused networking
effort and do it whenever you get a chance to. Chances are that some time after
you have met a new person you will get to know each other enough to reach the
point where you will be able to talk about more personal issues – a
relationship of sorts has then developed and you are now acquainted and can
rely on each other in various situations.
Are you in touch with people you met over the years?
What happened to all those people you met
over the years? Are you still in touch or has the relationship slowly faded
away over the years? Maybe you are connected on social media but you are not
really communicating there, as you don’t really have much to say to each other
after years without communication?
The normal situation is that people who
don’t see each other often or frequently talk in person by phone or in other
ways tend to drift apart and have less and less in common, know less and less about
each others life’s and thus have little to talk about.
Why do things often turn out this way? Why
is it some people who were once close stop communicating while others stay best
friends throughout their whole lives?
Maybe it is the lack of that little extra effort
to reach out that is missing? Just dropping somebody a note and see how they
are doing can be enough to revitalize a relationship.
How do you stay in touch?
Staying in touch with people you met
throughout your life is not really that hard and absolutely not complicated.
Write your friends a short note every now and then and just ask how they are
doing, add their birthdays to your calendar and make sure to call them in
person. Maybe you should decide to call one old friend per week and share some
of your own life stories on social media so all your connections know what you
are up to?
Not much effort is needed to stay in touch
with old friends and acquaintances but it could be of great importance for you
when a life crisis hits you or when you are in dire need for new professional
activities and those are some very good reasons why you should keep building
and maintaining a strong network.
Take the opportunity to talk and connect
with people you meet in everyday life. Talk a bit and follow up later; it will
serve you well at all times in your life.
Anders
Östlund
Founder
of Fryday, An International Network Of Professionals
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